So it's a brand new year and I am facing it with my head held high! I turn 30 this year and I have decided that it is my Towanda year. And for those who don't get that reference, please watch Fried Green Tomatoes. This is the year that I stop putting myself behind everyone else. I have finally figured out that if I take time out for myself whether it be going to the gym or getting myself groomed (i.e. waxing, salon, maybe even spa ;) ) I am a better person for my family. The saying of "If Mama ain't Happy ain't nobody Happy" really is true. We take care of so many people in our lives that if we aren't taking care of ourselves then those people suffer.
So this year I resolve to take care of me so that I can take care of others. I love being a homemaker and taking care of my husband and kids. But I also know that at the end of the day I feel drained. So I need to create a reserve for myself. And that will include working out 6 - 7 days a week. I know that sounds like a lot but even if I just do thirty minutes of walking around my neighborhood, I've done something. My weight has always been an issue for me and this year I resolve to make it a nonissue.
I will take care of myself fiscally. Lucas and I are working towards being debt-free in 2011. To be "in shape" fiscally means that there is less stress for Lucas and I and for the kids.
I will also take care of myself spiritually. Sometimes it's hard while you are wrangling children to really listen and focus on the lessons being given and really get to the place where you want to be during services. So i will make sure that I am taking the time to study on my own. And I will participate more. Idle hands are the devils playground so I will be busy. One of the greatest things about being a Christian is that Satan can try and tempt me, but I can say NO!
And last, but not least, I will take care of myself mentally and emotionally. How can I teach my kids to protect their emotional selves unless I show them. I have a tendency to let people tell me what to do and allow certain people to walk all over me. But no more! And I am not talking about getting in peoples faces with your head bobbing and weaving and finger waving. First and foremost, I am a Christian and that is how I will act. But I am talking about setting appropriate boundaries. I can say NO. It is okay for me to do that.
It is also okay for me to flourish on my own. I tend to step back for the sake of other people and this year I will step forward and put myself first. Like I said at the beginning, if I take proper care of myself I can take care of the ones I love.
I have already started accomplishing this goals and will keep my eye on the prize all year through. Because these "resolutions" are not just for a couple of months and then I drop them like a bad habit. These are to permanently transform myself. These are things that I truly want to improve and that is what I will be working on.
BTW, I also resolve to blog more! LOL! Maybe if I can shove my husband off the computer I can actually get more blogs going. =D
Well, this has been a pretty heavy blog so I promise more light and airy ones in the future. I hope everyone is having a blessed New Year and are keeping up with their resolutions. May God Bless you all!
Until next time,
Holly
